生氣、受氣與爭氣

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工作時,人難免都有怒氣,處理怒氣的方式,可以感受到自己的情緒,得知自己的EQ,更重要的是,測出自己的職涯還可以走多長。

當老師的我,以前常常生氣,因為學生不乖、不認真及考不好,外加挑剔難搞家長們的氣,搞得自己烏煙瘴氣。好幾次氣到在課堂上猛咳嗽,甚至氣到掉眼淚。老鳥老師看到我這副快要陣亡的慘樣,私底下跟其他同事們說,我應該做不久……。

後來,漸漸不想生氣了,只想默默受氣。因為學生及家長們,不太可能因為自己的生氣,而有所改變或感到抱歉。受氣,並不是委曲求全,而是用包容及客觀的態度,來消融心中的怒氣。於是會平心靜氣地站在他們的角度,去思考為什麼學生難調教?家長難溝通?這時才是真正的「領受」怒氣所帶來「禮物」。

生氣、受氣,只能說是消極性的做法。更積極性的做法,就是爭氣!爭氣就是積極上進,爭取成就。學生不想上課,與其用罵的、用罰的,倒不如想想有哪些東西是能引起學生們高昂的學習興致。面對家長,躲不掉也逃不了,倒不如正面迎戰,讓家長們心服口服。

從生氣、受氣到爭氣,這一路走來,我體悟到處理事情是能力,能力是職場競爭力;處理情緒是智慧,智慧是職場續航力。能力決定職涯的寬度,能力愈多樣,發展就愈多元。智慧決定職涯的長度,智慧愈高明,發展就愈高深。總之,能力加智慧,才能讓職涯強而有力。

本文擷取自: 自由時報 – 副刊    文/楊嘉敏

原文網址:http://news.ltn.com.tw/news/supplement/paper/839179



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